Hi Danielle,
I know how you feel, it can be very frustrating.
The reason is simply that the human body is rather complex.
The total "throughput" of the human body is about 13.5 pounds in weight (6.13kg). The diagram below is courtesy of NASA:

To quote from part of
The Hacker's Diet:
Every day your body ingests plenty of water and disposes of even more. Most of the changes in weight you see from day to day on a scale reflect nothing more than how much water is in the rubber bag (your body) at the moment. Consider: if you pig out to the extent of three slices of pizza before bedtime every night for a whole month, you'll gain about four pounds as the lingering souvenir of your month of wild abandon. Yet even that extreme weight gain is less than half your daily intake and disposal of water.
Most of the changes in weight you see have nothing to do with how many calories you're eating or burning. Instead, all you're seeing is how many pounds of water happen to be inside the rubber bag at the moment. How many bleak mornings of dark despair endured by forlorn dieters who indulged in a bowl of salted popcorn at midnight then slaked their thirst with a large glass of water in the middle of the night, would have been taken in stride had only the implications of human being as water pump been fully comprehended?
This is why all
good diet guides will recommend that you either weight yourself once a week, or try to ignore the day-to-day fluctuations. The important thing is the long term trend. By long term I mean months.
Some people do lose many pounds in a week, but generally this is only for a short period of time, and is a very unhealthy way to lose weight over the long term. Crash diets are very bad for the human body as your body fat stores toxins that are released into the blood as you lose weight. Lose too much in a short time and the body has problems coping. Most people see more weight loss at the beginning of a diet as they shed water, and then it slows down. This is entirely normal.
I would also pay more attention to your weight, and less to the BMI figure, which is very sensitive to small changes. Set yourself a long term target and aim for that. Don't worry so much about day to day fluctuations.
This is actually one of my issues with Wii Fit, it places too much importance on day to day changes, when long term trends are much more important.
I would also look more carefully at what you are eating. It might be worth keeping a food diary for a while, and seeing just how many calories you are consuming. I've been doing that for a while and I've been very surprised at which foods actually contain many more calories than you think they would.
I have built a website,
Graphomatic.net which allows me to record what food I eat, my weight, when I sleep and exercise etc, and plot them all on graphs.
I'd also thoroughly recommend reading
The Hacker's Diet. It is one of the most down-to-earth guides to losing weight I've ever read, by a guy who got to his ideal weight after years of being overweight. It's free, and you can read it online or download it to print.
Sorry this reply is so long, but it's a complex issue that a lot of people don't know about, and can be very off-putting when you are just starting out losing weight. It's a long slog, but we are all in it together.